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10Nov/200

LODGE BROTHERS FEES ARE FIXED AND AGREED IN ADVANCE

Inevitably, life tends to have a way of getting away with us. We leave school as young adults, searching for incomes which will allow us the independence that we so covet. Earning money means we have the power to make the choices about our own lives that feel so important to us at the time. Whether our goals are to grow our careers, or to start a family, independence generally decreases as we become more financially viable. What begins as an endeavour to be the best person that we can be, results in the accrual of material things and people. The car you save for to empower freedom of choice in your life becomes an asset. The type of social interactions which you choose, leads to you meet likeminded individuals and perhaps eventually results in a joining of kindred spirits in matrimony or the like. Families grow, houses are built and the need for a more stable income grows. All of these things that you need to build to sustain your life, become your assets. You have a choice over them in life. So too, do you have a choice over them in death.

Life unwittingly takes hold of us and often, the administration of your life is left at the bottom of the list of things to do. Stats show that 38% of adults living in the UK passed away last year without a will. Your will is your last chance to make voice heard and to have your final choices carried out as you would have done if you were still able. Failing to plan for your estate your estate via your will, you leave a lot to chance. And if you have not lived your life leaving all things to chance, why let it be the case in your death. No one person knows your wishes and desires as well as you do so when you pass away without a will and your estate is then governed by the laws of intestacy which means that everything that you have worked your whole life to attain is now governed by a set of rules enforced by the courts. Only married or civil partners and some of your close relatives are able to inherit your estate under the laws of intestacy which means that the courts may assign your possessions to someone who you had never intended them to.

Lodge Brothers attorneys specialise exclusively in Probate, Wills and Power of Attorney. Probate Guildford is the process, which confirms who will handle a person's estate after their death and it is important to have, as it is a legal requirement. Probate Feltham is a complicated system that is advisable to be handled by a competent probate attorney. Aspects of the probate Ashford process include, establishing the value of your assets and liabilities, finalising Inheritance Tax, applying for Probate Registry for the Grant of Probate or Grant of Letters of Administration. Lodge Brothers probate Woking offer caring and practical legal advice efficiently and professionally to make your life easier during distressing times.

18Dec/180

A Story of Courage on a Life-Affirming Journey

'Expect to laugh, cry and smile throughout this masterpiece'

The Fault in Our Stars

Author John Green

PLOT SUMMARY

Seventeen-year-old Hazel Grace is dying of cancer. Although a new drug has bought her an undetermined amount of time, it hasn't put her disease into remission. Tethered to an oxygen tank to help her breathe, Hazel has become rather depressed and reclusive.

Her mother forces her to attend a cancer support group, hoping that she might make a friend. Hazel loathes what she sees as the false optimism of the group, but she attends to keep her mother happy. One afternoon, she meets Augustus. He has been in remission since the doctors amputated his leg, but is attending the meeting as support for his friend Isaac, who has been told that he will soon lose another eye to cancer.

Augustus and Hazel are drawn to each other almost immediately, and Hazel visits his house after the meeting to watch a movie. Hazel, an avid reader, tells Augustus about her favorite book, An Imperial Affliction, a story about a teenage girl with cancer. Hazel relates to the book's main character, Anna, in every way. Not only does Anna have cancer, but her thoughts and philosophies are similar to Hazel's. The great draw of the book, however, is that it doesn't conclude. The story just ends.

Hazel surmises that it's to show that Anna became too ill to write, or died. But the ending has always plagued her. She wants to know what happened to the other characters in the book. Augustus promises to read the book and gives her his favorite book in return. It's a novel based on his favorite video game. Augustus and Hazel soon become close friends. Together they help their friend Isaac get through the pain of his girlfriend leaving him and the loss of his sight. After reading An Imperial Affliction, Augustus becomes obsessed with finding the author, Peter Van Houten, so they can know what happened to the other characters.

Hazel tries to keep Augustus at a safe distance because she knows she is dying. She considers herself a time bomb and doesn't want to hurt anyone when she explodes. Augustus, however, is committed to Hazel, so much so that he tracks down Van Houten through his assistant's email address. The author responds, which prompts Hazel to write him so she can ask him her questions. Van Houten responds several days later. He regrets to inform Hazel that he won't answer her questions in a letter or telephone conversation for fear she might try to write a sequel to his story. He flippantly tells her that if she is ever in Amsterdam, where he now resides, she should visit him.

Several days later, Augustus tells Hazel that he has contacted the Wish Factory, an organization that helps grant the wishes of sick children. Hazel had already been granted a wish when she was 13 and thought she was going to die, but Augustus never used his. The Wish Factory agrees to send Augustus, Hazel and a responsible adult to Amsterdam to meet Van Houten.

Before they can leave on their trip, Hazel's lungs fill with fluid, and she is rushed to the hospital. Unconscious for several days, she wakes up in the intensive care unit. Augustus has been waiting to see her, but only family is allowed into ICU. The good news out of this latest trauma is that Hazel's latest scans show no new tumor growth. She will have to use a machine at night to force more oxygen to her lungs, but other than that, the doctors are optimistic that the new drug she's on is holding off her cancer. More good news arrives when her doctors give her the OK to fly to Amsterdam.

On the first evening of their trip, Augustus and Hazel are given an exquisite dinner. The spring air is filled with floating tree blossoms, and the waiters treat them like newlyweds, even giving them champagne. Peter Van Houten, they are told, is paying the bill. The following day, the two take a cab to Van Houten's apartment, only to discover that the author didn't know of their coming and doesn't welcome their visit. His assistant, Lidewij, had set the visit up, hoping to coax her employer out of his self-imposed exile.

Van Houten is rude and obnoxious to the teenagers, refusing to answer their questions for the sheer reason that his characters aren't real. They don't continue to exist after the book is finished. Their story ended with the death of Anna. He has never imagined what happened to them later. He then belittles Hazel and Augustus, saying that they are only living because others pity them and pay for their treatments.

Augustus and Hazel leave the house angry and upset. Lidewij follows them out, after having resigned her position as Van Houten's assistant. She brings the children to Anne Frank's house and pays for their admission. The house has no elevators, so Hazel must lug her oxygen tank up a myriad of stairs. The exhaustion she suffers is worth it as she and Augustus share their first kiss at the end of the exhibit. The other tourists around them applaud.......................

Hazel and Augustus return to their hotel where they make love in his hotel room. After breakfast the following morning, Hazel's mother leaves the two alone to talk. Hazel and Augustus return to Hazel's room where he tells her that his cancer has returned and is attacking every part of his body. It is intimated that they again have sex.

They return home where Augustus immediately begins radical chemotherapy treatments. The drugs do little to stop his cancer, but they do make him tired and sick. Isaac visits and tells them he hasn't heard from his former girlfriend since the operation that took his sight. Angry, Augustus decides they have to retaliate. Hazel drives them to the store where she buys a dozen eggs. She then takes them over to the girlfriend's house.

Augustus coaches Isaac on where to aim the eggs and several of them manage to hit her car. After that, Augustus' health quickly declines. Hazel stays with him, even as he is mortified at how feeble he's become. As his death draws closer, he asks Hazel to meet him one night at the church where the support group meets. It is after hours and no one is there but Augustus and Isaac. Augustus wants to hear the eulogies that they will give at his funeral. After hearing them, he dies eight days later.

Hazel is shocked when Peter Van Houten attends Augustus' funeral. She and her parents give him a ride from the grave. He tells Hazel that Augustus wrote to him after they'd left Amsterdam. Because Van Houten still acts pretentious, Hazel makes him get out of the car.

Several days later, Isaac asks her if Augustus ever gave her the paper he was working on. Hazel gets in her car to drive to Augustus' house and is shocked to find Peter Van Houten in the back seat. She tries to get him to leave, but he insists on riding with her to Augustus' house. Along the way, he tells Hazel about his daughter who died at age 8 of cancer.

Hazel realizes that his daughter's death was the reason he became a miserable alcoholic. She eventually leaves him on the side of the road. Hazel scours Augustus' computer, room and house, but can't find anything that he wrote. She eventually figures out that he must have sent something to Van Houten. She writes Lidewij to ask if she saw anything. Lidewij responds the following afternoon after visiting the returned Van Houten and obtaining Augustus' letter.

It is a eulogy for Hazel. Augustus asked Van Houten to take his words and turn them into a worthy essay for Hazel. Van Houten told Lidewij that he could add nothing to Augustus' words. The story ends with Hazel reading Augustus' letter. In it, he speaks of his love for her and the way she lived her life.

21May/180

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It is possible to have a fairy tale wedding in the middle of winter or a winter wonderland wedding in the middle of summer or how about a traditional wedding?  The flexibility of hiring a marquee allows you to have the freedom to have exactly what you would like. The décor and huge selections of themed marquees make this possible. Marquee Hire will transform any marquee into the dream venue.

Many people would have seen their press coverage over the years from big screen to small screen, online to offline. They have grown in experience covering some famous events so with Marquee Hire’s many years in the marquee industry have made them leading experts in Marquee Hire.

20May/180

Mal is a British pioneer of emotional release through bodywork

Mal Weeraratne has been described as a Tantra Master, Pioneer in the field of Tantra Body Therapy and an emotional release specialist, and all of these titles are well deserved, but above all Mal Weeraratne is a dedicated and gifted Tantra healer.

Mal Weeraratne has over twenty years experience of treating women successfully and has thousands of positive and inspirational testimonials’ from satisfied clients. When it comes to Tantra, there are many experts in the field, but with over twenty years experience of teaching and treating clients from the UK and globally; Mal Weeraratne’s level of expertise and knowledge is second to none.

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Tantric Journey was founded by  Mal Weeraratne to offer treatments that combined the ancient knowledge and techniques of Tantra and Tao coupled with modern Western techniques, today Mal Weeraratne also teaches his unique therapy blend, Tantric Journey, to students both in the United Kingdom, Europe and Asia.

When looking to begin a truly transformative healing journey through Tantra, Mal Weeraratne offers a range of treatment plans for men, women and couples. Incorporated into his central London practice are male and female therapists that Mal Weeraratne has trained himself, so there are plenty of options when it comes to finding a Tantra therapist to suit your individual treatment needs.

Mal Weeraratne has written a book called Emotional Detox – through body therapy, has given many talks and press conferences and is an internationally recognized Tantra Master. Mal Weeraratne offers private Tantric Journey Therapy sessions in Central London and also runs workshops and courses on Tantra and Emotional Release through deep body therapy throughout the year. It is not surprising that the courses and workshops run and taught by Mal Weeraratne often fill up very quickly as he offers unique training courses and training that can positively transform lives.

19May/180

Choose the right Tantric Massage Therapist

An authentic Tantric Massage London is a deeply healing and transformative experience. Though finding a truly authentic Tantric Massage London can be difficult. In our fast paced society it can be a temptation to go with the first Tantric Massage London service we see advertised, but finding the right Tantric Therapist is essential if your Tantric Massage London experience is to be worthwhile and if you wish to embark on a truly, healing and blissful Tantric Journey.

When talking about embarking on any course of holistic therapy, it is often said that you choose your therapist and indeed this is very true when looking for Tantric Massage London. There are literally hundreds of Tantric Massage London options, but only a handful of Tantric Massage London options offer authentic and true Tantra services. Thankfully, Tantric Journey based in central London is run by Mal Weeraratne who has over twenty years experience of performing Tantric Massage and offers Tantric Massage London and Tantric Training.

When delivered and received with conscious, authentic intention, Tantric Massage London can be a powerful tool to connect us with our most natural, sensual and blissful selves. Tantric Massage London as offered by Tantric Journey is one of the most profoundly healing and transformative experiences you can embark on. In the hands of an experienced, Tantra practitioner embarking on Tantric Massage, London can mean that your vital energy is restored and used to clear emotional blockages as well as to revitalize your whole body, mind and spirit.
Indeed Tantric Massage London is offered by fully qualified and skilled Tantra Therapists at Tantric Journey and in beautiful, safe and relaxing surroundings in London. If you are looking to receive a Tantric Massage London then rest assured that Tantric Journey can book you an authentic Tantric Massage with a male or female therapist and that you will receive a beautiful and deeply connective Tantric Massage treatment.

 

18May/180

Hundreds of dates to choose from with Dukes of Daisy

Never would I ever have thought that one day I would not only consider using, but actually be happy that I decided to use an escort dating service. Dukes of Daisy are like no regular escort service and I’m so glad I found them. In my mid-30’s I suddenly found myself going through a divorce. To be honest, I never expected to actually get divorced which is a little strange considering that I thought about it pretty much all the time. While I was still married, divorce didn’t ever seem like an option... with 2 small children, a house and cat, there was too much going on in my life to focus on the nagging voice in my head telling me on a daily basis how unhappy I was and that as soon as the kids were big I would be out of there!

Then, at 35, life took care of the details for me… as it tends to do and I found myself thrown in the world of divorce, lawyers, and constant turmoil. While my circle of friend’s remains happily married, I found myself in swimming most disconcertingly in the unknown depths of life as a single mother.  No one gives you The Divorce Handbook for times like this! So while my friend’s lives carried on as before, I landed up in a new job, new house and a new dating pool! If you have ever been in this situation, you know what is out there and let me tell you, it’s a little scary. My free time became about trying not to cry myself to sleep over a large packet of crisps every night and facing a social life as a singleton.

I tried it all… going to clubs on my own, just to get out of house, going to work events on my own, dreading each and every minute of it, as the bosses wife accosted me in the ladies room, asking when I was going to start dating again. Being set up by married girlfriends, with some younger man, (because all the good ones are already taken and married at this stage) and awkwardly engaging with a complete stranger with absolutely no mutual interests to the point where crying into that packet of crisps started to look really enticing.

Then the invitation came… a friend of a friend had invited me to her 30th birthday party (the pity invite, no doubt) and a dress up party at that… the theme: dress as your favourite Barbie Doll. The worse part was that I caught wind of the fact that one of my particularly obnoxious ex-dates, was also invited to the party. Knowing that there was NO WAY that I would be going to a Barbie dress up party as “Single Mom Barbie”, possibly the world’s LEAST sexy Barbie doll, which is probably why they never made one! So I made the decision that something had to be done. And that’s when I discovered Dukes of Daisy. The terrifying thought of trying an escort dating service was only surpassed the absolute loathing of the idea of going to a Doll dress up party, and facing my ex, alone.

I did all my research on Dukes of Daisy non-sexual escorts before finally deciding to give it a try, mostly due to the fact that Dukes of Daisy guarantees their service to be totally hassle free, with no emotional drama and headache. Going to the party was so much easier walking into a relative stranger’s party, in dress up clothes, with someone who was so completely relaxed and not at all phased by the circumstances. What a total relief, not having to deal with the lecherous ex but also not having to sit by myself in a corner hoping that someone would take pity on me and include me in their conversation. It wasn’t a late night, I have to be honest, but at the end of it, my escort had been such a gentleman with absolutely no judgement or misguided expectations and I can honestly say that this using Dukes of Daisy was the best idea I have ever had.

~ Anon (Satisfied repeat client)

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17May/180

Choose from a large selection of Marquees to buy

How 4m Commercial DIY Marquees are so strong

Our industrial marquee for sale are considerably stronger than the industry standard and indeed our own party tent and classic ranges. This is due to sharing many of the features used in 6m wide structures:

  • Vertical and horizontal roof braces. This gives the roof considerable added strength.
  • Intermediate purlins along each side - half way down each side of the roof is another purlin support - this strengthens the marquee and gives additional support to the roof
  • The wind resistant 2m end panels are covered in a separate article
  • As is the envelope style roof
  • Groundbars are included automatically
  • A gable upright at each end allows for interchangeable side panels
  • All roofs and sides are made from a reliable quality 500gsm rip-stop PVC
  • The strongest shape in construction is a triangle - the additional roof braces make a strong triangular structure giving the marquee frame considerable strength.

We believe all of these features make our 4m commercial marquees the most durable and heavy duty structure of their class in the world.

We are always happy to offer more customised advice for your event, please contact us giving a few details of the event you are planning (type of event, space available, number of guests and diagrams/photographs of the site if possible) and we will be more than happy to advise on your options.

If you would like to use or quote any part of this article please contact us for permission or licencing.

16May/180

Become a Certified Tantra Teacher

Tantric massage therapy is an Ancient form of Sacred Touch that is deeply healing through its ability to harness universal energy and unite sexuality, Spirituality, Body & Mind.
Tantric Massage Therapy is capable of healing body and mind and of deep emotional detox, removing past traumas. Whether you are looking to receive Tantric Massage in order to promote the release of sexual trauma or difficulties or you are looking for Tantric Massage Training UK, then your search should begin with Tantric Journey – School of Healing and Awakening.
Tantric Massage Training UK has been successfully offered by Tantric Journey in Central London for many years. This Tantric Massage Training UK has transformed the life of many students, awakening their true potential by allowing them to train in the field of Tantra and eventually become certified Tantra Therapists – a highly rewarding career.

Tantric Massage therapy is unlike any other massage therapy, for it promotes the release of sexual trauma or difficulties, whether it be from abuse, impotence, premature ejaculation, childbirth, infertility, relationship issues or intimacy problems. A Tantric Massage therapy allows a recipient to become connected with their true self and highest potential. Allowing bliss to permeate into each moment of life and allowing bliss to be experienced in every area of the mind, body and soul.
Many people who enjoy a course of Tantric Massage Therapy go onto want to become Tantric Therapists themselves, because they have witnessed and experienced the deeply healing and transformative effects of Tantric Massage Therapy and thus they seek Tantric Massage Training UK to learn the authentic techniques and concepts of Tantric Massage Therapy.
Tantric Massage Training UK is offered by Tantric Journey and is taught by a Tantric Master with over twenty years experience in the field of Tantra. The Tantric Massage Training UK is offered in Central London and if you are still trying to make your mind up whether becoming a therapist is for you then attending a Tantric Journey Workshop or receiving a Tantric Massage Therapy Treatment from Tantric Journey is recommended.

15May/180

dblo associates are dedicated to creating and enhancing value through design

dblo associates architects Clapham, London, have been in operation since 1998. The architectural team encompasses years of experience which means that together they provide a vast range of knowledge and expertise which they bring to each and every one of their projects. Over and above their years of experience which sets them up to be fore-runners within their industry, is their belief that the quality of a person’s surroundings directly influences the quality of that person’s life. This means that whether it’s a public environment, a work environment or our homes, the buildings that we see, work, live and play in, all have influence over our lives.

This may seem like a strange way of looking at it but if we examine this closely, it starts to appear to be quite accurate and realistic. In a recent study, called The Value of Good Design, we learn how buildings and spaces create social and economic value. After a poll was taken in the early 2002, stats and figures were analysed to produce a consist view of how people consider well designed buildings or spaces as having a positive influence over their lives. Apply this to all areas of life and we can see that it is not just our homes which have great importance in our live but so too does our work environment …where we often spend a vast majority of time, sometimes more than we do at home. Having a positive influence on our lives means that not only does the space we surround ourselves with affect our emotional sense of well-being, but it also impact our levels of productivity and physical well-being. It also means that the general value of our life improves and socially the broader community benefits from lower crime rates and better property values. There is no question that the better the environment, the higher the person’s quality of life becomes but we really can extend that to a deeper mind set of well –being and prosperity.

Wouldn’t it be unpleasant to work every day in a space that had no windows to the outdoors? One might feel trapped and engulfed by the workspace. Ergonomically we cannot work well unless the physical set up of the space is suitable to allow us to perform our jobs optimally. Aesthetically, one would naturally function better in a workspace with colour and light than in one without. Similarly, a school would not promote ease of education and learning and pupils would not achieve as highly as those with the benefits of good design. The small things really can have the largest effect on a person’s psyche.

This is what dblo architects Fulham is all about… ensuring that not only are their projects executed with a highest levels of expertise and accuracy but that as a design project, they offer the very best opportunity to explore the lifestyle benefits of quality design. Dblo architects explore the concept of postmodern architecture within their designs, creating buildings and spaces which exceed expectations and creating and enhancing value through design.

14May/180

Flexibility of the Cloud

Sage Cloud Hosting gives you the stability of the desktop with the flexibility of the cloud.”

To those businesses that are still waiting for the Fourth Industrial Revolution to come, the time is now to brace yourselves and your business for exponential change! Defined by its speed, range, and systems impact, the Fourth Industrial Revolution carries in its path a vast deluge of technological breakthroughs, the likes of which no one can accurately quantify, nor predict.  The far reaching effects of this technological revolution can already be felt throughout every country in the world and has no historical precedent. Within the last decade, established as well as new and entrepreneurial businesses have experienced first-hand, the sheer speed of change which is felt in every industry and every sector on the globe. So if you, or someone you know has not yet begun to embrace and reach up to meet the impact of these changes head on, then it may already be too late.

To date, technology has enabled new products and services which increase the efficiency and productivity within our personal lives, as well as our business lives. Likewise, your consumers are experiencing increased access to efficient and ground-breaking solutions which irrefutably improve many aspect of their workplace environment, all made possible with technological advancements. Businesses are taking the leap to not only keep up with their competitors but to surpass them with the advantages that they can offer when enabling their businesses with new technology. And so too should you.

With Sage Cloud Hosting, your business will be at the fore-front of premium service and product offerings. Sage Cloud Hosting is service where data is remotely maintained, managed, and backed up. The service allows users to store their files online, which they can then access them from any location via the internet. Sage Cloud Hosting offers you access to your current version of Sage and can be extended to run virtually any Sage software package with flexibility and definitive security.

In the past, barely some 10 years or so ago, technology was such that we stored everything pertaining to our lives no futher away than on our local desktop, device or network. As things have advanced however we find that we have increased accessibility to our data through the use of various devices and we are taking on more and more tools which allow us to access an ever increasing variety of software, operating systems and version updates. At the end of that day, what we thought was always in one place where we could always find it, is now subject to being in various places, all at the same time, which means that things can get confusing. With increased accessibility, so too increases our desire to access all of these tools conveniently while in transit, and trying to remember on which device the latest or most current version of your documents is, can get tricky.

Sage Cloud based hosting is the safest and most effective option for your business as it offers the same fundamental quality you have come to know and expect from Sage, with the added advantages of allowing you to be able to access your data from anywhere, at any time and still be assured that your information is secure and current.

Moving your business over to cloud based hosting requires little additional setup and as long as your password remains secure with you, no one else can access your information. Couple this with our SWYX voice over IP system, tailor made to your business needs, there are no amount of PC’s, mobiles, laptops or other device that can be used which will leave you wondering where your data is or how to reach.